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6793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8Growing UpWhat parent hasn’t told their teen to ‘Grow Up!’ or at least thought it? A big part of growing up is learning to do hard things and valuing the sense of satisfaction that comes with completing those tasks. This TALK encourages discussion on this vital process. Teens are prompted to consider how becoming an adult will include learning to do difficult tasks and contemplate ways to better press on and complete difficult tasks in the future.NoNoNodeacda3a-4405-4276-9a7f-db9549caa24c.jpg48a6b235-ae80-4512-aa7e-f50fc7478358.mp35/22/2013 10:40:00 AMNo users yetYes
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Parents, think back to being a teenager. What was something your parents Parents, think back to being a teenager. What was something your parents wanted you to do that you found hard? It could have been getting better grades, applying for a job in person, earning your own money, getting along with a sibling better... aff6c233-1399-4b17-a023-5f79a4be5400.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a8801a66218c-ef7b-42e8-9d9c-13af1760c2226793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8aff6c233-1399-4b17-a023-5f79a4be5400
What do you face now as an adult that is difficult or hard for you? How areWhat do you face now as an adult that is difficult or hard for you? How are you handling it?1b6903d3-121d-480e-bda4-6565e9ff4b27.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a88173607644-07c0-4e06-b924-54d80d9cf99a6793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed81b6903d3-121d-480e-bda4-6565e9ff4b27
Teenagers, it is your turn to talk about doing hard things.Teenagers, it is your turn to talk about doing hard things.215a8f17-2b3d-4c3a-b52c-01a155e9310c.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a8825dce1453-bd3f-4d65-9913-44367ea606356793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8215a8f17-2b3d-4c3a-b52c-01a155e9310c
If I say something to you like, ‘You need to grow up,’ what does it mean If I say something to you like, ‘You need to grow up,’ what does it mean to you? How does a teenager grow into being an adult?dd9b4ad6-51c7-4efe-81da-0c5ca84267d2.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a8836885e596-39eb-401a-b91d-a3dbbb353da76793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8dd9b4ad6-51c7-4efe-81da-0c5ca84267d2
Gaining the ability to do things that are hard is one step in growing up. Gaining the ability to do things that are hard is one step in growing up. Share something you have accomplished that was hard for you.da4f008c-1f1d-47b7-b44f-c35a6953b2b2.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a884f63137e3-a340-4574-b661-ec620d28a2866793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8da4f008c-1f1d-47b7-b44f-c35a6953b2b2
Share three words that describe how you felt as a result of that accomplishShare three words that describe how you felt as a result of that accomplishment.7f92cb7e-3f21-4ddf-b062-55aa8d165052.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a88550a0aece-a428-4083-8e60-995e346f4d5a6793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed87f92cb7e-3f21-4ddf-b062-55aa8d165052
What are you facing now that is hard for you but not impossible?What are you facing now that is hard for you but not impossible?a39b995b-035e-4024-bcd9-9e9b0eab28b5.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a8862325b8bc-17f7-4941-be71-53a38a01f4056793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8a39b995b-035e-4024-bcd9-9e9b0eab28b5
On a scale of 1 (real easy) to 10 (next to impossible) how hard is this forOn a scale of 1 (real easy) to 10 (next to impossible) how hard is this for you?57cc6804-67b0-4737-8fea-3eece476fe59.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a88758ba8fa8-3954-460a-bd6a-5da2505b43c06793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed857cc6804-67b0-4737-8fea-3eece476fe59
What exactly is hard?What exactly is hard?780899f3-9aa6-48b5-b2ea-8d43d4028d97.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a888a6bd17fb-ba84-4b3d-be28-216c10c4ee5d6793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8780899f3-9aa6-48b5-b2ea-8d43d4028d97
Because I want to see you grow up and become a capable adult I have a roleBecause I want to see you grow up and become a capable adult I have a role to play in those things that are hard for you. What words describe how I have been exercising my role: uninvolved, critical, encouraging or over-bearing?0cc23efd-8260-4d6d-874d-fa9f1bb66cc9.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a889be9f8fb8-7aa3-4f04-bd55-47a1436a49626793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed80cc23efd-8260-4d6d-874d-fa9f1bb66cc9
I think we can agree that my role is to be that of an encourager I think we can agree that my role is to be that of an encourager and supporter. What would that look like to you? Are there things I need to stop doing or things I need to start doing?aeea7559-69d2-427f-b4ea-7d55a9bd3412.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a88106f2acd90-88d5-4839-8309-bb40582c634e6793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8aeea7559-69d2-427f-b4ea-7d55a9bd3412
When a young people are unable to do hard things they often distract When young people are unable to do hard things they often distract themselves from the task at hand. For example, when a homework question is ‘too hard’ you might hit Facebook or message a friend to chat. Do you find yourself doing that type of thing? Explain.a2e05247-cfc6-4a99-9372-4451de3f3ddd.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a8811b9b9add3-fb3b-44d5-9e43-1bbc5b68f06a6793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8a2e05247-cfc6-4a99-9372-4451de3f3ddd
Finish with an out loud brain storming session. Problem solve how Finish with an out loud brain storming session. Problem solve how to handle those situations where each of you want to avoid the hard thing at hand.539448ad-1897-4fd0-9a90-3e8a3926d385.mp359c63ca3-c06d-4cf4-9080-f5a6d7c14a8812f54291c7-12a7-4220-936d-57598299a5d56793e9de-7be5-4e05-86fc-fac5f7479ed8539448ad-1897-4fd0-9a90-3e8a3926d385

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