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77a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c3835Resolved to ResolveConflict resolves when a couple chooses to fight for their relationship rather than fight each other. As you TALK about conflict resolution in this non-conflict moment you are equipping yourself to better handle and resolve future conflicts.NoNoYesGreen_Swoosh.pngBackgroundMusicPeaceLanier.mp34/11/2013 12:00:00 AMTed MyersNO
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Growing upGrowing up, what did the conflict in your family look like?ResolvedtoResolve1.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce5370af9055c8-ec73-45b9-ac25-2b113875ac1877a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c383526f7ec30-143c-465e-8674-06be699bb0fd
What models of resolutionWhat models of resolution were you exposed to or taught?ResolvedtoResolve2.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce5371fec926ba-6521-41a8-a215-a7f0b5023cec77a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c38357d826005-e2ce-4dae-93df-644199b90e42
Many experts in the fieldMany experts in the field of relationships say the same thing, that conflict and fighting can be a good thing if it is carried out in a right manner. In what ways do you agree or disagree with this statement?ResolvedtoResolve3.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce53729bbf0cc8-50c0-4621-802a-4ee3874fd62177a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c38357969dfb8-99ca-4acc-957a-b497440224ee
Recall your ideaRecall your idea of what you thought marriage to me would be like. Do you find we fight more or less than you anticipated? ResolvedtoResolve4.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce5373dac7ac93-99a4-4e76-acdd-6dc7f75bcf7e77a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c3835b398f5fe-d8c4-46fd-b078-fa3257def47f
Summarize why you think Summarize why you think the majority of our conflicts occur?ResolvedtoResolve5.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce5374ab9fb8fe-bbfa-41d0-b511-56e28c11b30177a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c383563b28b8b-03c2-41c1-b967-42df1c82692c
Do you think that typically Do you think that typically we end up closer, or further apart after a fight?ResolvedtoResolve6.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce537530b3f4b0-c245-4e20-8d09-3ea20e6bae9777a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c383591bf8589-c4cb-4753-a224-136cfdee49b5
What are your feelingsWhat are your feelings about that? Share three.ResolvedtoResolve7.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce5376ff7c394d-588b-40d7-8a6b-0f8e1c3b99bb77a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c3835b3950c70-c776-452d-a3b9-8e3f93cfae35
What negative behaviorsWhat negative behaviors do you show that would indicate to me that our conflict is not on a path of resolution? Two examples are meanness and withdrawal, what do you tend to display?ResolvedtoResolve8.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce53778a0ae3c5-d265-4f5a-b582-76dfd30aaa2f77a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c3835de1e3ed7-c866-423d-9847-cf807aa647dc
What ideas do youWhat ideas do you have on how we can come back together at that point to fight for our marriage instead of fighting each other?ResolvedtoResolve9.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce537880ce1465-afa2-4bb4-9aa2-b56e4fa75a6677a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c3835bd9f6ae6-06a2-478c-b9aa-2eeeb57e3879
What are the benefitsWhat are the benefits for us individually and as a couple for addressing our conflict in a timely and effective manner?ResolvedtoResolve10.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce5379d56e6aca-1193-4b1d-bf3a-840cb9a4669c77a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c3835131dd5d1-d08d-4f9c-8d87-b2fab8e14665
Take some time now Take some time now to recognize a conflict that seems to resurface often. Decide if it is something you will have to agree to disagree on, forgive one another or reopen discussion with a renewed desire to listen and understand each other.ResolvedtoResolve11.mp33771639d-e990-495b-9d32-ceb2904ce5371020190bd9-6e7f-434b-bc1f-544d045653e877a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c38354986459c-1ca4-4302-a421-0b687b170f85

Label 77a70a83-e98c-467a-886e-61ce6d0c3835 Green_Swoosh.png BackgroundMusicPeaceLanier.mp3 Resolved to Resolve Conflict resolves when a couple chooses to fight for their relationship rather than fight each other. As you TALK about conflict resolution in this non-conflict moment you are equipping yourself to better handle and resolve future conflicts. 11 Growing up, what did the conflict in your family look like? ResolvedtoResolve1.mp3 No No Yes 50 start C NO Label